Sympathy Flowers

Send condolences with flowers to help express what words cannot.

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Bosland's Flower Shop is honored to help you find the right sympathy arrangement.

Choosing the right flowers or finding the right message is a deeply personal and difficult choice to make. Give us a call if you need help or read more in our sympathy guide.

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Bosland's Flower Shop is recognized as a funeral flower specialist with personal affiliations with local funeral directors. We carry casket sprays, standing flower sprays, funeral wreaths, planters and custom designs, along with baskets and in-vase sympathy bouquets for the home. We deliver directly to local area funeral homes around Wayne, NJ or across the country for your convenience. 

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the appropriate flower for sympathy?

Roses and carnations are both popular flowers for funerals, memorial services, and other sympathy occasions. Other appropriate selections include lilies (especially calla lilies), gladioli, chrysanthemums, and orchids.

What color flower is best for sympathy?

The best color flower for a funeral, memorial service, or expression of condolences, varies between people and between cultures. Traditionally in Western cultures, red roses at a funeral symbolize strength and dignity. White is also a popular color, symbolizing honor and peace. Of course, bright flowers and pastels are also appropriate. Blue flowers represent sadness, and purple flowers represent respect. We recommend you also consider honoring the deceased with arrangements made with their favorite flower varieties and favorite colors. 

When should you have sympathy flowers delivered?

It is appropriate to send a vased bouquet of sympathy flowers or a sympathy plant as soon as you hear of the passing of the deceased. We recommend that you wait to send larger arrangements, like standing easel sprays or wreaths, until the funeral service is held. It is also a kind idea to send flowers to the home a week later to remind the bereaved that they are still in your thoughts.

What type of arrangement is appropriate to send to a funeral or memorial service?

Anyone may send floral baskets, vased arrangements or living plants. Floral wreaths, crosses, and sprays are appropriate when sent by anyone personally acquainted with the deceased or the family of the deceased. Tributes, casket covers, and urn arrangements are traditionally reserved for family members. Should you wish to send an arrangement of this type, be sure to ask the family first. If you would like to learn more about funeral flower etiquette, view our Funeral Etiquette guide.

Can I send a live plant to the funeral home?

Yes, it is appropriate to send a green or flowering plant to the funeral home. Many funeral homes will deliver plants or flowers to the home of the bereaved after the memorial services, if specified. Others may request that the family take them home with them.

Where can I send funeral and sympathy flowers in Wayne?

Bosland's Flower Shop is honored to offer delivery to all local cemeteries and funeral homes in Wayne and surrounding areas at your convenience. We can also deliver to local residences and any location hosting a memorial service.

Can I send sympathy flowers to the family's home?

Absolutely. Some people choose to send flowers a week or so after the funeral, to remind the bereaved that they are still thinking of them and their loss. Floral honors are always appreciated, no matter when they are received.

What should I write in a sympathy card?

Coming up with the words for a sincere and thoughtful sympathy message is probably the most difficult of all. Trying to comfort someone who is in pain and has suffered a loss may leave you confused on where to begin. It is helpful to write words of support and encouragement and, above all else, to be sincere and thoughtful. Often a well-crafted quote works well to capture the sentiment you're feeling.If you are having some difficulty finding the right words, our sympathy guide may be helpful.

A Word from Our Customers

Average Rating:
5.0
Total Number of Reviews:
84
 
  • May 18, 2025
    Frank B
    a little pricey for what I ordered
    Bosland's Flower Shop
    Thank you, Frank, for sharing your thoughts with us. We appreciate your feedback and understand that pricing is an important factor. We strive to offer the best quality and service to ensure every arrangement is special, and we appreciate your support and understanding.
  • May 10, 2025
    Jean Bennett
    I've been sending my Mom flowers from boslands flowers in Wayne for years and they always impress my mom with long lasting flowers and beautiful colors as well as yummy cupcakes. She's 87 and gone thru multiple hospital stays. God willing she stays healthy at home with my 92 year old dad for her remaining time. Thank u Boslands for your expertise.
    Bosland's Flower Shop
    Thank you, Jean, for sharing such a heartfelt review. We're truly honored to be a part of bringing joy to your mom over the years. It's wonderful to hear that our flowers and cupcakes have brightened her days. We wish your mom and dad continued health and happiness together and appreciate your support.
  • May 10, 2025
    Kim G
    Before my parents moved to Cedar Crest I had a local florist I could rely on for 35 years. I happened upon Bosland’s by luck when I sent flowers and a plant after the big move and couldn’t be more satisfied. I have sent flowers, plants, and balloons. My mother loves every arrangement, they are hand delivered to her apartment and she says the delivery people are so nice. It’s nice to have found another small town feel florist, especially since I live so far away now. Oh, and the balloons last so long, we make a little wager on how long the birthday ballon will last this year, whatever your magic, don’t change a thing!!
    Bosland's Flower Shop
    It's wonderful to hear that we have become your new florist of choice. We're delighted that your mother enjoys the arrangements and that our delivery team has made a positive impression. Knowing that our balloons bring a bit of fun to your celebrations is the cherry on top! Thank you for trusting us to help you with your floral needs from afar. We look forward to continuing to bring joy to your family!
  • April 18, 2025
    Steve B
    I have always experienced the delivery of beautiful arrangements that are always the same as advertised, without surprise substitutions, fresh and delivered in perfect condition.
    Bosland's Flower Shop
    Thank you for choosing Bosland's, Steve! We are absolutely overjoyed to hear that we were able to help, and as a local business, we appreciate your support!
  • April 18, 2025
    Jim D
    Excellent service, flowers were delivered on-time and looked great
    Bosland's Flower Shop
    Thank you, Jim, for your kind words! We're delighted to hear that you were pleased with the timely delivery and the quality of the flowers. It's always our aim to make sure every arrangement brings joy to our customers.
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